The Gentlemen’s Curb
It’s the Gentlemen’s Curb a lifestyle blog where fashion meets fitness in a BIG way. We are back with some more information for you! Too many folks can get caught up on what’s the scale is saying. This is not a good mindset, as there are many other factors that contribute to health as well as how many pounds we weight. However, the worst thing is some of us can let that measurement stop us doing things, including seeking out romance and intimate relationships in our lives. This has to stop however because sexy isn’t about what the scale says. In fact, there’s a lot more to it than that, read on to discover what.
It’s all about mental attitude.
You can’t be sexy if you don’t feel sexy and this is something that comes from a mental attitude rather than weight or body type. What this means is that running ourselves down inside our own heads is a big no-no. In fact, have you ever stopped to listen to your self-talk around appearance and weight? If it’s super negative and critical, then it is time to change it. Of course, this is not always the most natural thing to do but leaning some mindfulness and CBT techniques can help you notice when you are a beating yourself up and change these behaviors. After all, loving yourself is a big part of feeling sexy and giving off that sexy vibe to other people.
It is about dressing to make yourself feel great.
Don’t forget to dress in a way that makes yourself feel great as well no matter what your size. This could be wearing something naughty like the stuff available from NDS Wear, or it could be about finding a well-cut regular outfit that makes you feel on trend, and as smart as possible. Different things will work for different people, but remember that whether the scale is reading high or low, putting some effort into the way you look can help you feel your sexy best at all times.
It is about your personality
Next, it’s also important to remember that being sexy isn’t always about body shape at all. In fact, many people are attracted to personality traits like intelligence, sensitivity, and a good sense of humor. It is these qualities that first mark out a potential mate to them as sexy and then the psychical stuff comes later. So quit putting all the focus on your body and develop your mind a little too.
It is about being unashamedly you.
Lastly, being sexy is about being unashamedly you. That’s right, what matters is being able to own your flaws as well as your strengths, and to be able to be vulnerable enough to someone that you let them see these too. It’s not easy, even for guys with rock hard abs and girls with tiny waists because as human beings we can find it challenging to let people see us when we are not perfect. But there is a secret to it, do you want to know what it is? Well, it’s knowing that nobody and not one body is perfect, and that is OK. In fact, being unashamedly you is probably the best way to be sexy that there is.
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