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What’s Up Though?
I know that some of you are alarmed by the topic.
Y’all are clutching your imaginary pearls. Your eyebrows are raised.
I know that some of you are looking at me sideways and mumbling under your breath due to the topic of this post. You are entitled to your view, but I know that you will read this entire post. Trust, that you reading this is greatly appreciated. Thank You for your time. 😃
Sex, Sex, Sex,
To many of us, the topic of sex is taboo. We all do it, but we refuse to talk about it. Porn sites are where most of the people would spend their time. It’s a natural human function For all of you Bible thumpers, The Word speaks of sex in the book of Leviticus the 15th chapter. (I already spoke to my parents too, so you can’t hold it over my head.)
So, let’s not go overboard and have some adult conversation.
This series will be mainly geared towards men. No, no one in my inbox asked me about sex. Well, they did but it wasn’t for any advice!
In this series, we are going to be discussing ways for men to increase our sex lives. In this post, we will speak one important factor of confidence.
To have real confidence is weird because it’s something that you can’t fake. A lot of people try to project confidence, but it comes across as being cocky. I have been there, trust me. But, it goes a bit deeper. When it comes to sex, how you feel about yourself plays in your performance. Now, if you’re a larger person and your weight is heavy on the brain, then your overall performance won’t be the strongest. You will limit yourself and won’t focus on the moment.
Boost Your Confidence
There are tons of things that can affect our confidence. Boost your confidence by learning something new. There is a lot of information available. YouTube is an amazing source of information. Read. Listen. Converse. Exchange Ideas.
The more confident you are in yourself the more confident you will be in the bedroom.
Put Aside Your Ego And Learn
Every partner that you encounter will be different. Don’t assume. Converse. If you are truly interested in her, then you will be willing to be a better partner. Ignore the notion that is forced on men that we should automatically “know” what woman want. We will never know the impossible. Ha! I am joking, I hope that the women that are reading this won’t be offended.
Don’t Ask About What Was The Biggest
Don’t get your feelings hurt. Penis size is a huge factor. If your partner is dealing with you then take it as that. Your partner can see your size and definitely knows. (Let’s be honest, Bro. I know that you feel like your johnson is the hugest in the world. News Flash There are longer, wider. It’s life go balls deep with what you were given.)
If you go digging you might get your feelings hurt and then your confidence will drop back down. Why would you care about her other visitors when your partner is currently “visiting” you? (*shrug*)
Play To Your Strength
Do you look at old clips of NBA (The National Basketball Association) on YouTube? (I love watching how the older guys played and compare it to how the players of today play.) If you don’t look at the Utah Jazz when Karl Malone and John Stockton played. Every other play it seemed was a pick and roll play. And it brought the pair all-star appearances and some western conference championships. They played to their strengths. You should do the same.
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