The Gentlemen’s Curb
It’s The Gentlemen’s Curb a lifestyle blog where fashion meets fitness in a BIG way. If you are a man of size, a big and tall, plus male or a brawn male, this site is for you. We are back to share some information with you!
When Pleasure Must Come Second To Responsibility
All men have this issue and have been battling it within themselves since they came of age. Sexual desires can often lead us to different cultures and meeting other people. Charging out onto the dating scene, some people are purely driven by lust and the need to fulfill that urge they have to have intimate contact with somebody. However, how long is that chase for pleasure going to last, without having some kind of downturn on you? There’s always going to some kind of reaction to being with multiple partners just for the passionate nights of pleasure. In this day and age, men should not expect to just sleep around and go about their lives like there are no consequences. And, what if you’re in a strong relationship and you already have children, do you just carry on being careless? If you do, it could end up hurting your children, your woman and many others around you that look up to you, to be a responsible person taking full ownership of your actions.
Practice Safe Sex
Women have been doing this for many decades now but still, men believe that if she makes the effort, then we don’t need to. Taking care not to be sexually careless isn’t just about your personal safety, but it means you have more power also. Of course, the first thing that comes to mind is avoiding sexually transmitted diseases, which is a very serious topic. However, it gives you the power to control your own reproductive choice. So, buy condoms and always make sure to talk to your woman about her cycle and avoid having intercourse when she is most likely to be producing eggs in the month. It sounds so simple because it is. You have to become more aware of the power you hold and not just let the woman assume the responsibility of practicing safe sex. If you don’t want or are not ready for children, you’re making sure you have the power to not let a pregnancy happen by keeping safe.
Making The Decision
Being in a relationship where you already have children but you’re now trying to grow together as a couple is a stage where longevity will be tested. Raising your children and being a stable father in their lives is one of the most rewarding things you can do. And what if you decide that you don’t want any more children, but still want to have an active sexual relationship with your woman? The vasectomy option is something that offers you the ability to keep being sexually active and enjoying each other but without the risk that you could potentially have more children on the way. Look for the dedicated clinics that do this kind of procedure and having specialist staff working in them. Putting your body in the hands of another requires trust that the doctor and or surgeon is properly qualified to be careful and effective. Don’t be ruled by your lust, it’s a form of raw emotion that clouds your judgment. Take responsibility of when, where and how, you have children if ever for that matter. Don’t rely on your woman to be safe for both of you.