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When The Dating Scene Just Isn’t Right
Dating is something everyone does in their own way. Maybe you like high-end bars and dressing to the nines to impress someone who could be the person of your dreams. Maybe you prefer picnics at lookout points and stargazing with someone you like under a clear night sky. Either way, there’s a lot you can plan for a date, but only if the dating scene is right for you right now! Being confident when you’re playing the field is one thing, but finding what you’re looking for can be the hardest thing in the world when there’s just no one out there. So now’s your chance to really focus on what the problems are, and how you can raise the standards a little to make sure you have much more success next time you have a date at the restaurant!
Keep An Open Mind
We always have expectations for a date night. Even if we don’t air them out loud, we always have a thought in the back of our heads that this person we’re going to dinner with could be the one… You tell yourself it’s a stupid thought, but it doesn’t stop you from thinking about the possibility. And that could be the problem you have right now, considering dating is becoming more and more a no commitment zone. So before you start looking for tips on how to get your ex wife back, because you think you’re going to be alone for at least another ten years or so, make sure you go into every blind date or speed dating situation knowing the score. Of course, you want a long-term relationship, but if the other person doesn’t, you shouldn’t try to force it. Let things develop naturally, lay down the rules between the two of you before anything serious happens, and let yourself have some fun in your quest to find the one.
Take Your Time
A lot of the time we can feel like we’re running out of just that: time. But the truth is entirely the opposite, and if someone is actually interested in you, they’ll pick up your messages, even if it’s been a week since you talked. You have to remember people have lives to live as well as find someone they’re happy to date, and a lot of things can get in the way of your budding romance. So take your time! Make sure you know the other person at least a little before you take each other out, and make sure you have something to talk about before sitting awkwardly across a table from each other. Conversation is always going to be the best thing to liven a date night, and it’s not all about looks at the end of the day! You need to be physically and intellectually attractive to someone, so bring your entire personality to the table.
Don’t worry, dating can be right for you, you just need to know your options and how to play them.